The Dress Search

If you're looking for a traditional style gown, there are more than you can imagine at the many bridal shops around town. If you desire something a little more unusual or casual, don't overlook the evening wear departments of fine clothing stores. Some brides are even lucky at vintage clothiers or antique shops.

Choose a dress style that reflects your overall wedding theme and one that you feel comfortable wearing. Most brides say they know right away when they've found the dress that's right. Don't get frustrated if the search is a long one. You are bound to find the dress that's for you.

A good rule to remember is: you should always wear the dress - don't let the dress wear you. When it comes to detailing - lace, ribbons, pearls and bows - more is not always better. Don't let yourself be overpowered by your dress. The same rule applies to headpieces.

Choose a waistline and neckline that accent your best feature - hips, waist, bust or shoulders. Similarly, your dress should downplay your most unflattering features. If you are lucky enough to fit into a sample size - usually Size 10 or smaller - you may find a great buy off the rack.

Some dress manufacturers can offer additional services to help you find the dress you want. For instance, if you are having a winter wedding and love a particular dress that only comes in short sleeves, see if the manufacturer can add sleeves for an extra cost. They will also add extra length for tall brides.

Don't squeeze into a dress that doesn't fit it will show. Have a professional tailor do the necessary alterations, with the final changes made as close to your wedding day as possible. Remember, you will be moving around a lot on your wedding day. Kneeling, bending and dancing will make comfort a priority, so don't choose a style that's too restricting or revealing when you move.

Don't forget about your budget. If money gets tight, consider a bridal resale shop or consult a seamstress to have your dress made.